Kitty Party Invitation Messages: 20 Ready-to-Send Samples

A good kitty party invitation message is short, warm and complete. It should tell your friends the date, time, address, theme and any dress code in about four or five lines, and it should be sent on WhatsApp at least five to seven days before the party.

Below are 20 ready-to-copy messages for different kinds of kitties, plus a simple checklist so you never forget an important detail.

What Should a Kitty Party Invitation Include?

Every invitation, whether it is a WhatsApp message, a card or a poster, should answer these questions at a glance:

Date and day (for example, Saturday, 18 October)
Time, with a start and a rough end time
Venue and a Google Maps pin, so nobody calls you for directions
Theme and dress code, if you have one
Kitty amount, if it is collected at the party
Who is hosting, and a contact number for last-minute questions
RSVP, by when you need a yes or no

Most hosts forget the end time and the RSVP date. Adding them helps you plan food and avoids the awkward "I'll let you know" replies on the morning of the party.

When Should You Send a Kitty Party Invitation?

Send the first message five to seven days before the party, and a small reminder one day before. If it is a festival kitty or a big theme party, send it two weeks early, because calendars fill up fast in the festive season.

For a regular monthly kitty, you can also share the next month's date and venue at the end of the current party, then confirm it again on WhatsApp.

20 Kitty Party Invitation Messages You Can Copy

1. 💌 Simple and Classic

Dear ladies, our monthly kitty is on Saturday, 18 October at 4 PM at my home. Please come and make the evening special. Location pin below. Kindly confirm by Thursday. See you all!

2. 🌸 Warm and Friendly

Hello my lovely kitty girls! It is my turn to host this month and I am so excited. Join me on Sunday at 11 AM for chai, chatter and lots of games. Please reply with a yes so I can plan the food.

3. 🎉 Short and Sweet

Kitty party at my place, Friday, 6 PM. Bring your smile and your appetite. Confirm please!

4. 🪔 Festive Evening

The festive season is here and so is our kitty! Join us for a bright Diwali evening with diyas, games and sweets. Dress code: ethnic. Saturday, 4 PM. Do come!

5. 💛 Colour Theme

This month our kitty has a colour code: yellow! Wear anything yellow and get ready for a sunny afternoon. Sunday, 12 noon. Prize for the best outfit!

6. 🎲 Game Night

Warning: this kitty is all about games. Tambola, one-minute challenges and a surprise round. Saturday, 5 PM at my home. Come ready to win!

7. 🍽️ Potluck Style

Our potluck kitty is back! Everyone brings one favourite dish and the recipe story behind it. Sunday, 1 PM. Please message me what you will bring so we do not end up with five pulaos.

8. 👗 Saree Day

Let us bring out our favourite sarees! Saree kitty on Saturday, 4 PM. Photo corner is ready, so be prepared to pose.

9. 🌴 Summer Brunch

Light brunch, cool drinks and good company. Join me on Sunday at 11 AM. Wear something breezy and bring your sunglasses.

10. ☔ Monsoon Special

Rain, pakoras and chai: the best combination! Monsoon kitty at my home on Saturday at 4 PM. Come and enjoy the weather with us.

11. 🎂 Birthday Kitty

It is my birthday month, and I want to celebrate with the people who make every month special. Kitty at my home on Friday at 7 PM. No gifts please, just your blessings and your presence!

12. 🥳 Anniversary of Our Group

Our kitty group completes one year this month! Let us celebrate with a small party, a cake and lots of memories. Sunday, 5 PM. Please do come.

13. 🎄 Christmas Party

Santa has asked us to have fun! Christmas kitty with red and green dress code, secret Santa gifts under 300 rupees and lots of cake. Saturday, 4 PM.

14. 🎆 New Year Kitty

Let us welcome the new year with our favourite people. Kitty on Saturday at 4 PM with games, music and a small resolution round. Wear something sparkly!

15. 📍 Cafe or Restaurant Kitty

Our kitty this month is at a cafe. Table is booked for 1 PM on Sunday. Menu will be shared in the group so you can choose in advance. Please confirm by Friday so I can give the final count.

16. 🧘 Relaxed Weekday Kitty

A quiet afternoon kitty for those who prefer weekdays. Wednesday, 3 PM. Light snacks, tea and a few easy games. Please confirm if you can join.

17. 🏡 Terrace Party

We are going outdoors! Terrace kitty on Saturday at 6 PM with fairy lights, music and tambola under the stars. Carry a light shawl just in case.

18. 🙏 New Member Welcome

We are happy to welcome a new member to our kitty family! Please join us on Sunday at 4 PM so we can give her a warm welcome. Games, snacks and lots of laughter guaranteed.

19. 💰 Reminder with Kitty Amount

Gentle reminder: kitty on Saturday at 4 PM at my home. Kitty amount is 2,000 rupees per member, to be given to the treasurer on arrival. Lucky draw as usual. Looking forward to seeing everyone!

20. ⏰ Day Before Reminder

Just a reminder, ladies, our kitty is tomorrow at 4 PM. Location pin is below. Cannot wait to see you all! If you cannot make it, please let me know today.

How Do You Write an Invitation in Hinglish?

Many groups prefer a mix of Hindi and English because it feels more personal. Here are a few easy lines you can use:

"Sab ladies ko invite hai, is Saturday ko mere ghar kitty hai, time 4 baje. Zaroor aana!"
"Is baar ka theme hai pink. Sab pink pehen kar aana, best dressed ko prize milega."
"Please kal tak confirm kar do taaki main khane ka plan bana sakoon."
"Kitty ke saath tambola bhi hai, toh apna lucky pen le aana!"

Keep the tone the same as your group's everyday chat. If your friends write in Hinglish all day, an overly formal message will feel odd.

Tips for a Better Invitation

Keep it under 60 words. Long messages get skimmed and then forgotten.

Add a Google Maps pin. It saves ten phone calls on the day.

Create a small poster. A free design app on your phone is enough. Add the date, time and a cheerful emoji, and share it as an image along with the text.

Mention the theme early. Members need time to plan their outfit.

Ask for a clear reply. "Reply with a yes or no by Thursday" works better than "let me know".

Send a reminder. One short message a day before reduces last-minute cancellations.

Share food preferences. A quick line like "Veg only, no onion garlic, or Jain options available?" shows you care and avoids waste.

Common Invitation Mistakes to Avoid

Forgetting the end time, so guests do not know how long to plan for
Sending the message too late, especially for festival kitties
Not mentioning the dress code or theme until the last day
Sharing the address without a map pin
Posting in a busy group chat where the message gets buried, so pin the message or send a reminder

Where to Learn More Before You Host

If you are new to hosting, read how a kitty party works, including the rules and money pool. For theme and menu inspiration, see our guide to kitty party ideas for ladies.

You can also play Tambola with your group using the Kitty Party app, and you can find more at Kitty Party Club.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I write in a kitty party invitation?

Write the date, day, time, venue with a map pin, theme or dress code, who is hosting and the RSVP date. Keep it to four or five short lines so everyone can read it quickly.

How early should I send a kitty party invitation?

Send it five to seven days before a regular kitty, and about two weeks before a festival or theme party. Send one short reminder on the day before.

Is it fine to invite kitty members on WhatsApp?

Yes. Almost every kitty group today uses WhatsApp. A clear text message with a location pin, and optionally a small poster, is enough for a regular kitty.

How do I invite someone new to my kitty group?

Message her personally first, share the date, venue and the kitty amount, and explain how the group works. Then add her to the group so she can meet everyone before the party.

Should the kitty amount be mentioned in the invitation?

If the amount is collected at the party, a gentle mention helps members come prepared. If your group already knows the monthly amount, a short reminder is enough.